My Obit

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 Kenneth “CrackedSapien” M___

January 18, 1965 – ???

Kenneth M___, known by his chosen name CrackedSapien, lived a life cracked wide open by experience — and in those cracks, he found light, insight, and unrelenting truth. Born in St. Louis, Missouri, in the quiet hours of night, he was shaped by hardship early, but never gave in to defeat. He faced trauma not by hiding from it, but by confronting it head-on, questioning everything, and daring to keep feeling — even when feelings ran dry.

A father, a thinker, a Dungeon Master, and a storyteller, CrackedSapien believed people could change — and that some do awaken, even if others stay blind. He spent much of his life holding space for those too scared to speak and daring to speak what others wouldn’t. His honesty was his pride, his blog his cracked house, and his mind a labyrinth of intellect, resilience, and sharp-edged compassion.

He was no stranger to pain — but he didn’t let it define him. He sought connection through introspection, conversation, and creativity. He left behind not only memories, but echoes — thoughtful reflections on life, belief, AI, humanity, trauma, growth, and the deep mystery of it all.

He lived a life that should have destroyed him, but didn’t. He survived. And that was enough.



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